Everyone has heard of social networking web sites. Social networks such as MySpace and FaceBook. Most people who are on line all around the world have at least one account with one of these many, many social networks. They permit members to find long-lost friends, stay in touch with family and make new contacts in places or even countries that they have never visited
When you sign up to one of these social networking sites, you will get asked to fill in account details. These details have nothing to do with a bank account. Rather they are what most people call their ‘profile’.
This profile can ask fairly detailed questions on the pretext that the more information you give, the easier it will be for your friends to find you, should they be searching.
Typical questions are name, age, sex, address, schools attended, location of workplace, musical interests, hobbies, likes, dislikes, Yahoo, Hotmail and Gmail address book passwords and user names. They also want a photo.
They want your address book so that they can email your friends and tell them that you are now a member and offer them membership too. So, as you can see, it becomes vital to judge just how much detail it is prudent or you are willing to give away.
The first thing to keep in mind is: just because a social networking site asks you for an answer to a question, do not feel that you have to answer it. For instance, it is a fact that if you add lots of details and a photo, more members might recognize you and want to become friends, yet how many strangers do you want in your home town to know where you live, where you go to school or work and what you look like?
If you are concerned that you might become simple for a predator to find, lie about your locality. For example, if you live in a small town, say you live in the nearest big city and be sure you put a matching zip or post code from that city too.
If you post a photo, it is almost certainly not a wise idea to put details of where you go and where you live. On the other hand you could provide those details so that friends can find you, but use an avatar or cartoon to represent your image and use a nickname instead of your real name.
If you opt for a nickname, opt for a sensible one. ‘Hotand Lusty1990’ or ‘BigBoy1990’ are not apt for most surfers no matter how funny you may think they are at the moment of registration. Do not include your age or a tell-tale to your age either, as in the above examples. Surfers will assume that the number is your year of birth.
The guiding principle should be: how much would I tell a stranger if one walked up to me in the street? Not much, probably. Well, there could be thousands doing just that in the virtual streets of social networking.
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